I love this site, and to read all the ways everyone does it, the female experience is the best, I just love to know how girls do it.
Well, this is for girls and boys, my technique is with a candle, first lay on the bed with a towel under you. Fold the towel about an inch just in front of your bottom, and then rub KY jelly on the candle and on your anus. Place the candle in the fold of the towel and insert the candle it to your bottom and push down. The towel holds the candle in place and you can go up and down with ease, an amazing feeling when you're wanking. I hope you enjoy it and happy masturbation.