get crest toothpaste and only put a dab on your cilt......it burns but in a good way and I put my Acuvibe (from sharper image) directly on my throbbing cilt and I orgasm in literally minutes
also warm up a hot dog _ MAKE SURE ITS NOT TOO HOT _ and insert it in and it feels amazinng
glad to help
and if you havent
keep trying ! !