I have been masturbating since I hit puberty at least 2-5 times a week and before that I was touching myself any chance I got without ejaculating since I was very young. I must say that I am happily married to a wonderful and sexy woman for 17 years and my wife and I have a great sex life. This has worked out just fine since I have been married because my wife loves to watch me stroke myself to orgasm. I started shaving my cock and balls to where they are totally bare on my honeymoon and have never quit. I shaved about once a week for several years but since about five years ago I shave daily. I love the way being shaved feels when I lube myself up and stroke myself off.
Regardless of how tired, how busy, or distracted whenever I shave I always become really horny and follow up with a jerk off session. The two activities are definitely tied to one another and my wife always knows that if I am clean shaven that I have stroked myself to orgasm also. This normally takes place in the shower before I get ready for work each morning. It has become part of my routine to brush my teeth, shave my face, shave my cock and balls, and then cum in a nice hot shower. Sometimes my wife will come in and watch as I shoot my load in the tub. This normally makes her more interested in sex later on that evening because she thinks about the look of my muscles tensing and the semen pumping throughout the day and it makes her horny. In fact after some of these times where she watches (which also happens in bed when we masturbate for each other) I often will check for myself and she is always very wet. This has worked for us, maybe it will for you.