I am sure Soloing fits quite a few people
I was always quite shy when it came to girls and had only a few dates when in school, none of which went very far sex wise. After high school there were fewer opportunities for dating, living in a small town. Masturbation was always my major sex experience. It completely satisfied me sexually. I would have a quick one in the morning after waking up and then another quickie after coming home from work. Usually I would go out with friends in the evening and after coming home I would have several hours to myself in my bedroom. That would be the extended sessions. The first would last maybe ten or fifteen minutes, then a rest for an half hour or so, then a much longer session, twenty or even 30 minutes, timing the strokes, enjoying the rising and falling of the waves of pleasure as I would speed up and slow down to extend the session to its maximum. This was usually enough, but sometimes if feeling horny because of something experienced during the day, I would go for a third session. I would finally fall asleep, satisfied and totally relaxed. I did this until I was 30 years old, and totally enjoyed my sex life, it was only then that I thought I should really make a sincere attempt to get married. I did about a year and a half later and while intercourse is very often quite good, I still enjoy a good jerk-off session in between. To me that can be more satisfying because the pleasure can be completely controlled for as long as you want, not so with intercourse, also orgasms are sort of 'muffled' when taking place inside a vagina, they are more explosive with a hand job as they can be built up and built up until the final strong throbbing and pulsing orgasmic experience when every pulse is filling your mind and body with pleasure. That is my sex life story in a nutshell, masturbation really satifies me thoroughly and always has.