'Anon' you are getting your proverbials in a twist here. Reading your story just emphasises the simple fact that men have a higher sex drive than women.
Women constantly make the mistake of thinking sex and love are the same. If it is the same for you that does not mean it is the same for him Men are designed to look and women are designed to be looked at. Why else would they spend a fortune on their toenails for Gods sake. Please relax a little and try to stop doing the CIA on him Yes it's normal