Turn-offs can become turn-ons.
I've had a pretty average sex life... a few boyfriends in high school and college, and I've been married twice: almost 10 years, and now going on 11.
I never masturbated until between my two marriages. It just didn't really occur to me to touch myself 'down there.' That changed one evening when one of my girlfriends and I were commisserating about men and she mentioned her trusty vibrator. I thought I played it cool, but I guess I looked shocked. About a week later she gave me a wrapped package with a sly wink and I've been hooked ever since.
The other thing I've never been interested in is oral sex. It's just never thrilled me to lay there while someone slobbers all over me to no good end.
That all changed last week. My husband came home a bit hornier than usual and it was a warm night in SoCal so we went out to our backyard hot tub. After a good soak we headed upstairs to the bedroom and while I usually use my vibrator only for solo fore- or after-play my husband kept fingering me as I held it against my clit.
He then leaned over to try to lick me but my hands and the handle kept getting in the way of his mouth. I don't know why I felt like trying something new, but I had him be the one to lay on his back and knelt just over him and rested against the headboard while I held my vibrator down my stomach with its tip just against my clit. His tongue slid in and out of my cunt and along my lips as I worked myself up to the wettest I've ever been. From time to time he'd add suction to the mix and it made my sex get firmer and puffier as the blood rushed to it.
The smell of my sex filled the room and actually pushed me over the brink into my best orgasm ever.
Twice since then I've cum by myself thinking of that evening and I'm excited to try a repeat performance.
If you're a woman who's never masturbated before you owe it to yourself to buy a vibrator and try it.
If you're a woman who's never had a lover lick and suck her while cumming you owe it to yourself to try that too.
There really is a first time for everything.