I Wish I Knew Then What I Know Now

I have always loved everything about women but never understood them-especially their sexual desires. That changed between my first and second marriage when I met a woman who loved to masturbate and have sex as much as I did. We did it all, oral, fucking, fingering and watching the other masturbate. I was in my late 30's and it was the first time a woman masturbated for me. It always turned me on and I would cum on her tits, face or ass. My first wife never touched herself during sex or otherwise and all the women I had had sex with from High School through college did not masturbate for me. They wanted me to do all the work which I did. What I did not understand is that they were loving it and must have loved doing it when they were alone. I thought I was getting away with something so I was quick and direct. I pleased them (I think) even though I had little idea how women got off during sex. I just knew it happened and I felt around until they were becoming very excited.

The hottest moment of my life happened when I was around 50 and was on vacation when my second wife upon getting in the car to go to dinner with me (grandma stayed with the kids), proceeded to start playing with herself. She was eventually totally naked on the ride to a restaurant and was moaning and rubbing furiously. She was touching her pussy and caressing her breasts. She had gorgeous breasts and I loved watching her play with them. An amazing turn on for me. Cars passed us and oncoming cars could see inside with their lights and that turned her on even more. She had a wonderful orgasm right there after about 15 minutes of rubbing and caressing. I guess she needed that and I was so aroused I had to jerk off in the parking lot before we went into the restaurant. She watched intently. It was a subdued meal at a high class place.

Our sex life was varied, but we were limited by the time we had alone because of children. Yet we did everything a couple could do with each other. I loved getting her off or helping her get off in the shower. She liked anal play while she masturbated standing up. She came so hard when I did that and would not be able to stand afterwards. She could cum 99% of the time with clitoral stimulation so I gave her several with my fingers. The only drawback to our sex life was that she only wanted one orgasm a day. On a few occasions, I got her to have more in a day or in a session.

I wish I knew about women's arousal earlier in life. Most of my girlfriends were afraid of getting pregnant (before the pill) so we did mutual masturbation. It never occurred to me (although I have exhibitionist tendencies) to ask them to masturbate for me or for them to watch me masturbate. Had I know they even masturbated I would have had some sort of conversation that could have led to playing and watching, something I love to this day. I use to masturbate several times a day. These days, once or twice is my limit even though I draw it out and take an hour or so to do it (the internet keeps me well entertained as do stories here).

I have so many great memories of sexually exciting moments from my life to feed my solitary masturbation existence and it is a good life!