Self Pleasure With a Lady

It's been a great pleasure from age 12.... and even though I grew up in a catholic household, the fear of the wrath wasn't even a concern after the first time.

My favorite then as a kid, was lying on my belly, and rubbing the upper end of my hardness between the thumb, and first two fingers, until I'd explode into the sheets on the side of the bed.My mom never said a word, and I stopped that method soon after realizing that the mess I created was obvious to my mom, when she'd change the sheets, LOL.

Later in life, I didn't find any females who enjoyed this mutually until my first marriage was about to end, my then wife, in a bid to save the marriage, finally was able to accept that sex was OK, and that having me lick her, while she rubbed herself gave her a pleasure she'd been afraid to admit to herself before then, and of course gave me IMMENSE pleasure watching her rub her clit, and watching her face as she would cum as I licked her. After she'd cum once, I'd get inside her, and stroke away til I felt like I might cum, then I'd slow down and tease her, rubbing her clit softly, and her nipples as well, until she came again.

She would also use her new vibe while letting me watch as well. Certainly one of the most erotic images that I can imagine is a lady in the throes of self pleasure, as I watch her. Sometimes I'd watch her, and stroke myself til I came on her belly, at her request. That was SEXY, and turned me on immensely.

My current mate, dislikes sex to a greater degree, and this has helped hurt our marriage. She never wanted to admit to 'self pleasure'.... and too, I think believed that oral sex is dirty or wrong...... which is where the 'sock method' came into play for my 'self pleasure'.

Rather than badger her into having sex when I felt aroused, I'd wait til she was asleep beside me in bed, and use the sock to catch the eruption. Knowing she was so close by, made it very erotic for me, but the loneliness of having to masturbate, and a wife who didn't seem to mind if she or I went without, helped ruin the partnership.As with the 1st wife though.... when things began to quite obviously go from bad to worse in the marriage, she too picked up a vibe, and was suddenly responsive to mutual sessions, though it was still apparent, that she really did it only to salvage the marriage, and not so much because she absolutely was crazy for it.

So, while mutual is great fun, it isn't nearly as much fun unless my mate is into it with a healthy gusto.... after all, I can have more fun with my mental images while masturbating than I can with a mate who's heart and mind are only going through the motions.

Reading the stories of the females here, has been a gold mine. The arousal I receive from images of ladies in self pleasuring have made it very clear to me, that I won't settle for a lady who cannot enjoy a good mutual session, or who is afraid to enjoy even 'self' gratification.

So ladies, keep on sending in the stories, and know that another male is exploding with pleasure reading your stories, and I'm looking forward to the new site, and the thought that there will be the possibility to hook up via net, or phone to entice each other to new heights with erotic abandon.

Who knows, my next mate, may be reading this now... know one thing....... it gives me immense pleasure to have my lady cum before I do.... as many times as she'd like, either by hand, my thigh, her own hands, or vibe, or orally, and then for both of us to bring it to a loving conclusion.

Thanks for such a great site, I've been reading this site since I stumbled upon it 3 yrs ago.

Would love to hear from more ladies who enjoy mutual, and enjoy it in the context of a loving relationship... not just a 'sex for sex sake' format. My own personal arousal is greatly enhanced when myself and my partner are of a like mind, and love is central to our attraction to one another.Cum on ladies, I love your stories.