Thank You, Francis
Thank you, Francis, for your very helpful reply. I too can
identify quite strongly with some of the points you made
inasmuch as I can still recall clearly how (some years ago)
I had to summon-up courage to masturbate openly in front of another for the very first time. Although that person was
extremely encouraging and eager for me to 'perform' it was a bit like breaking the sound barrier if you know what I mean - an exciting yet shattering experience. Afterwards, all the inhibitions and hang-ups I had felt for years just seemeed to melt away and I found a new sense of freedom, especially freedom from shame.
It would be wonderful if my girlfriend Anne was to experience something similiar by masturbating herself for me, but I would only wish her to do it for her own liberating pleasure. Thanks again for taking time out to comment so thoughtfully. I really appreciate it.